Marriage is tough. It is hard for people to get what they need out of a relationship and it becomes even harder when the couple is married. That is because to end a marriage, you need to get a divorce. And getting a divorce is not easy. Neither is recognizing the fact that your marriage is in disarray and something …
When is it the Right Time to Divorce?
Deciding to end a marriage is not something that should be taken lightly. Deciding to divorce is one of the hardest things a person can do. Divorces are difficult for all involved and the effects often last for many years. So, if you are not happy with your marriage and have not been for a long time, you may wonder: …
Why Do People Stay in Unhappy Marriages?
The divorce rate is currently hovering around 50%. That may seem like a lot, but if everyone who wanted a divorce actually got one, that number would likely be much higher. You may not understand this. Divorce is legal in all 50 states, so why doesn’t someone just go get one? Well, it is not that simple. Divorce is not …
What are the Best Reasons to Get Divorced?
Marriage takes a lot of work. When times get tough, communication can break down. Spouses may feel like strangers. Luckily, there is help available. Marriage counselors can help you and your spouse communicate better and resolve your issues. But what if your marital problems cannot be resolved? Should you consider a divorce? The good news is that in the United …
How to Co-Parent Effectively
Going through a divorce can be devastating for all involved. While the spouses often focus on their feelings, the truth is that children can be just as affected. It will be up to you and the other parent to navigate through this difficult time. While you will likely be feeling extreme stress at the thought of relocation, finding a new …
How Money Worries Can Improve Your Marriage
You probably know that money matters are one of the biggest causes of divorce, and for good reason. It is hard to feel happy and in love with your spouse when you are trying to save money and they are trying to spend it all. Indeed, if you are both on different pages when it comes to financial goals, it …
How to Stay in Love After Decades Together
If you have been married for 20, 30, or even 40 years or more, you know how hard it can be to keep the spark alive. Relationships can get monotonous over time, and keeping your marriage new and exciting can be quite the challenge. Plus, there are phenomena to consider, such as the seven-year itch. Psychologists claim that relationship satisfaction …
Dealing With Verbal Abuse in Your Marriage
Your spouse constantly yells at you and calls you names. They criticize and humiliate you. They are controlling and can even be manipulative. These are all signs of verbal abuse. You may think this type of communication is common in relationships, but it should not be. Verbal abuse tends to occur gradually and over time, it can actually be as …
Saving a Failing Marriage
Once you pass the honeymoon stage of your marriage, things start to get real. Bills are not getting paid. You argue all the time. You do not spend as much time together as you used to. You are exhausted. While these signs do not necessarily mean your marriage is troubled, it does mean you have some work to do. Once …
Are You Married to the Right “Type” of Person?
Many of us have a “type” of person that we are attracted to. Maybe he’s tall, dark, and handsome. Perhaps she’s a thin blonde with blue eyes. Maybe you are more into personality and prefer someone who is extroverted. Many people exclusively seek out people who meet their specifications, but this is not always a good thing. This often means …